I think the best managers are a little selfish in the right way. They know their job gets easier when people feel challenged, supported, trusted, and able to grow.
Retention is not a soft metric. It is a business advantage. When good people leave, the cost is not just recruiting. It is lost knowledge, lost momentum, lower quality, and the emotional drag of rebuilding trust all over again.
I help leaders think about management as a system of clarity, protection, accountability, and growth.
“The selfish manager keeps great people because losing them makes everything harder.”— Bryan Gaffin
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